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Memilih pasangan adalah suatu perjudian. Take it or leave it.

Relationships are verbs. So it requires compatibility, vision, teamwork, passion, consistency, compromise with the same amount energy from the couple. And marriage shouldn’t be the goals. Marriage is the impact of healthy relationships. Every problem that ruin the relationships should be solved before marriage.

Never choose someone to make you happy. But to share happiness together.

Being loved and being chosen is are two different things. Great relationships require both.
– Vienna Pharaon

…and loving someone and choosing someone are two different things too.


nobody can save you but yourself
you will be put again and again
into nearly impossible situations
they will attempt again and again
through subterfuge, guise and force
to make you submit, quit and/or die quietly inside.

nobody can save you but yourself
and it will be easy enough to fail so very easily
but don’t, don’t, don’t
just watch them
listen to them
do you want to be like that?
a faceless, mindless, heartless being?
do you want to experience death before death?

nobody can save you but yourself
and you’re worth saving
it’s a war not easily won
but if anything is worth winning then
this is it

think about it
think about saving your self

— Charles Bukowski